Enneagram, Relationships
Joanne Kim
Relationship Patterns of the Three Enneagram ...

In a conversation with Jenn Pinkerton of the Redhead Reveal Podcast, we explore what kinds of relationship patterns the three Enneagram Instincts (Self-Preservation, Social, & Sexual) get stuck in and how to grow beyond. See how your & your loved one’s instinct sequence helps & hurts your connection!

Relationship Patterns of the Three Enneagram Instincts
Enneagram, Trauma & Abuse, Brainspotting, Relationships
Joanne Kim
How Brainspotting can Strengthen Your ...

Struggling with emotional triggers or intimacy issues in your relationships because you were hurt in the past? Brainspotting is a powerful trauma therapy that helps you release past wounds stored in the body—so you can clearly see and effectively attend to each new person and moment clearly for what it is, instead of what your old trauma ghosts tell you they are.

How Brainspotting can Strengthen Your Relationships
Enneagram, Personal Growth, Starter Kit
Joanne Kim
How "The Mask" is the Perfect Metaphor for the ...

“The Mask”, featuring Jim Carrey, is a great movie that illustrates what the Enneagram types are like: masks (or personas) we don until we become so “fused” with them that we forget our true selves. Read this blog to learn about your mask!

How "The Mask" is the Perfect Metaphor for the Enneagram
Enneagram, Personal Growth, Self-Care
Joanne Kim
Enneagram Types & Therapy

I was a panelist at the EnneaSummit 2024 for the Enneagram Practitioner Panel.

In this panel, we share our experiences and observations about what different Enneagram types think they need in therapy, what they actually need, and some important growth steps so they can grow beyond their type.

Enneagram Types & Therapy
Enneagram, Personal Growth, Self-Care
Joanne Kim
Enneagram Heart Types Panel: Type 2, 3, and 4

I was a panelist at the EnneaSummit for the Heart Type Panel hosted by Tyler Zach (Enneagram 3).

In this video, six panelists give firsthand accounts about what it's like to be an Enneagram 2, 3, or 4.

Enneagram Heart Types Panel: Type 2, 3, and 4

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Enneagram Types & Therapy

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Enneagram Types & Therapy

I was a panelist at the EnneaSummit 2024 for the Enneagram Practitioner Panel.

In this panel, we share our experiences and observations about what different Enneagram types think they need in therapy, what they actually need, and some important growth steps so they can grow beyond their type.

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How Enneagram Type-Specific Retreats Help You Dive Deep into Your Personality

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How Enneagram Type-Specific Retreats Help You Dive Deep into Your Personality

If you're eager and intentional about personal growth, here are 5 reasons why I think you def should consider attending one of Beatrice Chestnut & Uranio Paes' type-specific Enneagram retreats.

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What is Self-Referencing + Others-Referencing?

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What is Self-Referencing + Others-Referencing?

All of us have the capacity of being self-referencing or others-referencing - using ourselves and others as reference points for life, respectively. But what’s the difference between being self-referencing and being selfish, and being others-referencing and being generous? How can we grow beyond our Enneagram type by practicing both options?

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Growth Tips for Each Enneagram Type (Part I)

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Growth Tips for Each Enneagram Type (Part I)

The Enneagram tells us 9 different ways of seeing/responding to life that used to be helpful coping strategies when we were younger that now keep us stuck in painful situations. Read this blog to learn two growth tips for your Enneagram type.

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Juggling Too Many Balls? Which to Keep and Which to Drop

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Juggling Too Many Balls? Which to Keep and Which to Drop

Juggling many tasks and responsibilities is HARD. Prioritize tasks before making irreparable mistakes by identifying which of these juggled “balls” are made of rubber, glass, or wood.

What are the Emotional Habits of your Enneagram type?

Grab this free guide that highlights the patterns that keep you stuck and the steps to grow beyond your type!

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