The Central Themes for Each Enneagram Type

It's a regular practice for me to reflect on my handy 5-Year Journal, where each page is designated for each day of the year.

I've gotten in the habit of jotting down what happens each day neutrally - the good, the not so good, the typical event, the extraordinary situation - so that I tame my Enneagram 4 habit of only looking at negative data (to then wonder why things don't ever work out for me).

Main thing I noticed?

How the emotional tone of my daily logs have shifted over time because I changed the colored lens through which I see life.

The accounts became more well-rounded, which then set me up to experience each new day in a much more balanced and grounded way.

If you notice what you notice, what comes up?

These are some go-to themes for each of the nine Enneagram types that "colors" the lens through which we see the world:

  1. Enneagram 1 - integrity, truth, perfection, improvement, good or bad

  2. Enneagram 2 - relationships, being liked/loved or rejected

  3. Enneagram 3 - image, succeeding (and looking good while doing it)

  4. Enneagram 4 - authenticity, creativity, being seen as different/unique 

  5. Enneagram 5 - scarcity, limited resources, energy levels, being encroached on by others

  6. Enneagram 6 - safety, security, trust, authority

  7. Enneagram 7 - novelty, freedom, fun, limitlessness

  8. Enneagram 8 - challenge, impact, change, power/strength

  9. Enneagram 9 - harmony, peace, ease

...and each of the 3 instincts:

  1. Self-preservation - order, predictability, planning/prepping

  2. Social - status, image, influence, role, position in a group, inclusion/exclusion

  3. Sexual - being special, intimacy, competition/rivalry, being the "est" person (best, prettiest, closest) or "THE one"

What "lens" or theme you tend to see your life through!