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      <image:caption>A free PDF guide covering the usual ways each Enneagram type deals with the BIG 5 Feelings: MAD , SAD , GLAD , SCARED ⚫️, &amp; NUMB ⚪️</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Dani Rojas: Enneagram 7 SX/SO. The quintessential Type 7.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Ted Lasso: Enneagram 7 SO/SX — Same type, diff dominant instinct than Dani Rojas, as well as a countertype 7.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Rebecca Welton: Enneagram 8 SX/SP. Not afraid to take up space and speak her mind, even in a male-dominated field. Difficulty opening up except to her “special” persons, including Keeley &amp; Ted.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Roy Kent: Enneagram 8 SP/SO. Gruff, grumpy exterior that conceals a soft heart for his team &amp; loved ones that activates when he sees anyone being treated unfairly. Reluctant leader.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Keeley Jones: Enneagram 2 SX/SO. Often seen with one other special person, such as her bestie Rebecca (with whom they’re each other’s arrow types). She develops a deep connection with herself, often in solitude.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Jamie Tartt: Enneagram 3 SO/SX. Loves being seen as the pinnacle of success &amp; the center of attention based on his achievements &amp; star power. Highly emotional &amp; relationship-oriented, he struggles when his image is shattered and works on discovering his true self.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Nate Shelley: Enneagram 3 SP/SX (countertype). Undervalued but still hardworking from the message “I am what I DO”. Intensely anxious about being in the spotlight, but he “shapeshifts” to become what his dad &gt; Ted &gt; Rupert wants him to be, until he has his own identity crisis of coming into his true self.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Rupert Mannion: Enneagram 4 SX/SP (very unhealthy: likely also a narcissist). Sees himself as superior to others, but rather than directly dealing with it, he manipulates relationships &amp; power dynamics from behind the scenes. Externalizes his own insecurities onto others, poking at their sore spots or exploiting their vulnerabilities.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Sam Obisanya: Enneagram 9 SO/SX (countertype). “Merges” with the agenda of the group/collective, which requires great teamwork &amp; bright energy. Focused more on other people’s goals &amp; values as their representative until he later individuates &amp; discovers what he himself really wants to do (Right Action).</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Leslie Higgins: Enneagram 6 SP/SO. Very reliable, but timidly sees himself as powerless and becomes the trusty right-hand man to powerful people (Rebecca, Ted). Later reclaims his own power &amp; strength and asserts his own challenging opinions.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Dr. Sharon: Enneagram 5 SP/SX. Very private &amp; boundaried. Does well in one-sided relationships like therapy because she doesn’t have to reveal much about herself. She realizes the professional &amp; personal challenges to this and starts opening up more.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Coach Beard: Enneagram 5 SX/SO (countertype). Still occupying the expert role in accumulating knowledge, but has a very strong romantic, idealizing bent. Highly compartmentalized: his personal &amp; professional life rarely mix.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Trent Crimm: Enneagram 4 SP/SX. Very individualistic with a splash of elitism, but done in a more professionally savvy, personally guarded way. Mistrusts Ted’s intense positivity, but once Ted earns his respect, he works hard to support the team however he can. Has a keen sense of others’ vulnerabilities &amp; secrets, but doesn’t exploit them, even to the point of curbing his career.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Isaac McAdoo: Enneagram Eight, SO/SP (guess). Shows care for others in his own way that makes him a central pillar that others naturally look up to. Direct access to anger that’s about power dynamics &amp; fairness more than standards. Not enough info.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Enneagram Types of Wicked characters (coming soon!): Elphaba - 4 SP/SX, Glinda 2 SO/SX, Fiyero 7 SX/SO.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Before (Seasons 1 &amp; 2): A triangle between Anthony, Violet, &amp; Daphne, with Daphne as the main focus of Season 1 and Anthony the target of Season 2. The other children are more in the backdrop.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>After (start of Season 3): Anthony &amp; Daphne on the periphery, Francesca the main focus of Violet &amp; Lady Danbury’s attention. Violet has generally been more focused on her daughters and less involved in the lives of her other sons — Benedict &amp; Colin. The youngest — Gregory &amp; Hyacinth — are also rarely the focus of her attention.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Start of Season 2: Daphne (Enneagram 2 SX/SO) with Simon (4 SX/SP) who has a turbulent triangle in his own family of origin (red) with his cruel father and Lady Danbury — who steps in as his godmother after his mother dies in childbirth). As is common for double SX-dominant couples and also Enneagram 2 &amp; 4 combos, Daphne’s relationship with Simon is very emotionally intense and wild. Since Simon also has some childhood attachment trauma and previously vowed to never have children, it’s TBD how his relationship with his own child August (and by extension his connection with Daphne both as a partner &amp; coparent) will be.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Start of Season 3: Anthony (Enneagram 1 SX/SO) &amp; Kate (8 SO/SX) have a very vibrant, thriving relationship that’s based on several factors: both have common experiences being the responsible, firstborn pillar of the family, have very strong one-up personalities (good equal power dynamic), and similar instinct stacking (both SP-repressed). Anthony has a lot of complex trauma wounds to heal, but his relationship with Kate and their soon-to-be born child might be very healing as he learns to rest, play, and rely on others again.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“Remember? Nice guys finish last.”</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>How he lives sees himself and is seen: drab, broken, unwanted, boring, loser</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“We all wear masks, metaphorically speaking.”</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“It’s like it brings your innermost desires to life.”</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“When he [The Mask] is gone, all that’s left is me [my true self].”</image:caption>
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